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The Porcupine's Lesson: What Happens When We Don't Complete the Cycle
When we feel vulnerable, many of us instinctively bristle like a porcupine — sharp quills raised to keep danger at bay. These protective strategies often develop in childhood, when we learn to keep ourselves safe by withdrawing, defending, or keeping others at a distance. While they once served an important purpose, these same defenses can leave us feeling isolated, misunderstood, or disconnected in adulthood.
Tosca DeVito
Aug 266 min read
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The Tree Within: Reclaiming Capacity, Restoring Health
People-pleasing isn’t your personality — it’s a nervous system survival response. Over time, it can lead to chronic illness, pain, and exhaustion. Explore a new way of seeing your nervous system through the lens of nature, resilience, and rooted healing.
Tosca DeVito
Aug 235 min read
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When the Rains Come: Managing Emotional Flooding
When your usual grounding techniques don’t work, it doesn’t mean you’re broken—it means you’re overwhelmed. Emotional flooding can feel like your internal bridge washed away, but there’s always another path.
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May 193 min read
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Are You a Sweet PEA? A Tale of Preemptive Empathic Appeasing
Have you ever adjusted your behavior to meet someone else's needs before they even expressed them?
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Apr 243 min read
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Reclaiming Awareness Through the Sit Spot Practice
Observing the natural world can help to strengthen awareness of your inner world.
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Apr 54 min read
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The Hidden Dangers of Sacrificing Your Authenticity
We are hardwired for connection. It's the Stone Age blueprint we came into this world with. No matter where we are born or under what...
Tosca DeVito
Jun 1, 20246 min read
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Migraines were ruining her life.
You hear it all the time, and in Heather’s case, it was no exaggeration. Heather told me stories of migraines that would come on at work....
Tosca DeVito
Sep 29, 20235 min read
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The Rhythm of Healing
Life is a rhythmic event. We do not blanket rhythm over our lives, it is the pulse of life. The earth turns on its axis and the sun...
Tosca DeVito
Mar 5, 20233 min read
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The Magic of Walking in the Cold
Some of the magic of walking in the frigid temperatures comes from needing to keep my fingers warm. The best way to do that (aside from...
Tosca DeVito
Mar 5, 20232 min read
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